If you’ve perused this website you know that vaginismus is a condition where there is involuntary spasm of the entry muscles to the vagina, causing either pain or, in extreme cases a complete inability to penetrate.
I hope you also know that it’s very treatable and you shouldn’t’ t feel like you have to live with it. One of things I’ve noticed with vaginismus patients is that they are often scared to come in for treatment and therefore put things off for a very long time — and suffer needlessly.
Sometimes they put things off and put things off until there is some crises, a partner leaves, they stop dating etc.
But if that’s you — here’s something to think about:
more often than not, the fear is way worse than the treatment. Most patients say that once they got in the door, the rest was easy.
So maybe it’s time you treated yourself!