Are you sex-stuck? Yup, I just made that up. But please, feel free – make it a hashtag. You know you wanna. Here’s what I’m really asking: is your sex life yawn-inducing? Same ol’ same ol’? BOR-ING??!! Don’t worry – we’ve got you. If you’ve been in a long-term relationship, sex can be deprioritized for …
Continue ReadingWhat Are You Feeling? Name it to Tame it.
Possessing the vocabulary to better describe our feelings enables us to be aware of the nuances of what we feel. Do YOU have the proper vocab?
Continue ReadingAttachment Theory in Love & Relationships
Attachment research shows us that our need for a secure bond with our partner (or a caregiver) is essential.
Continue ReadingWhy did I write Sex Points?
“Why did you write this book Bat Sheva?” I get asked this question during nearly every interview or Podcast I do. And for a while I struggled for an answer. The real answer seemed so complicated: to help women, to assure women that they are normal, to give women answers to questions they didn’t even …
Continue ReadingErotically Speaking
According to Wikipedia, Erotica is defined as “any literary and artistic work that deals substantively with subject matter that is erotically stimulating or sexually arousing but is not pornographic.” I feel the need to share this definition because I think that many people believe that erotica is synonymous with pornography. I have read a lot …
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