Do women peak sexually at an older age than men? I have discovered that it depends what one means by peak. Find out more!
Continue ReadingSkip To The Lube My Darlin’
Sex without lube is like, well – let’s just say it’s not nearly as much fun and in fact for some, it’s downright painful!
Continue ReadingTreatment Approaches To Sexual Trauma
People often ask if sexual trauma is at the root of dyspareunia (pelvic & vaginal pain). It is not simple because every person is different.
Continue ReadingSex in the Media: Explore or Ignore – “Good Luck to You, Leo Grande”
This is one of those “run – don’t walk” moments, People – “Good Luck to You, Leo Grande” is a must-see. You don’t have to run too far, however – hell, you don’t even have to put on a bra – “GLtYLG” is streaming on Hulu.
Continue ReadingIntimacy on TV vs. Real Life
Ultimately, we must ask ourselves how much reality do we want in our fantasy life and how much fantasy do we want in our real lives?
Continue ReadingWe Can’t Read Our Partner’s Mind!
Please do communicate your deepest desires. Sure, it might be awkward at first. It can create much better sex now.
Continue ReadingTwo Things To Improve Your Sex Life Today
Own the kind of sex you really want to try and then make it happen in reality or make it happen in your head. Either way you don’t have to give up on the kind of sex you want!
Continue ReadingNo, That Is Not A Weird Way To Orgasm.
I find myself reassuring women all day long in my sex therapy practice. Many, many, many women have orgasms while on their stomachs and not when they are on their backs. Really? Really and Truly? YES! I don’t know what it is about the “stomach orgasm” that makes so many women feel like if they orgasm …
Continue ReadingHere’s An Idea: Getting off on TV
For some of our female patients, just hearing me say the word “porn” makes them cringe, look away and change the subject. At this point, I feel like I have lost them into an abyss of discomfort and the conversation about watching anything to get turned on hits a wall. So I thought, what about …
Continue ReadingOne of The Most Effective Ways To Improve Your Relationship
There is research showing that marriages with good sex tend to be happier marriages. But of course, this begs the question: Is it the good relationship that produces better sex or is it better sex that results in a better relationship? As a sex therapist, I’d say that the answer is more complicated than you …
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