If you don’t already have a sexy holiday tradition now is a great time to start. I have one male client who likes nothing more than to see his wife topless so every year on Christmas Eve she comes to bed wearing nothing but the bottom half of a holiday costume. One year it was …
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The key to enhancing sex and intimacy during the holidays is twofold. The first step is to create the intention of bringing the joy of the season into the bedroom. A little mistletoe on the top of the headboard can act as a loving reminder. The second step is to identify holiday landmines and create …
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All Pro NFL tough guy, Brian Urlacher is being accused of dressing his three year old son in Cinderella diapers and painting the boy’s toe nails blue, the team color of the linebacker’s Chicago Bears. The accuser is the boy’s mother, Tyna Robertson with whom Urlacher is in a child custody battle. Robertson is complaining that …
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I am thankful for the opportunity to help people heal and to help people grow. I am thankful for the ability to help people feel normal. I am thankful for the ability to help people embrace their sexual fantasies, desires, behaviors, orientation and identity. I am thankful when I can help somebody let go of …
Continue ReadingSelecting the right therapist for you…
I frequently get calls from friends and family wanting to know what they should look for when selecting a therapist. My advice: In this age of specialization you should be able to select a therapist who has expertise in your very specific area of concern. Second, studies show that up to 45% of the effectiveness …
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