General life conditions had an impact.

[sad_magpie]

Hello,
if anyone is reading this forum, i’d like to share my story

I am a woman in her mid-thirties who did not manage to solve her vaginismus issue, but I have thoughts of what I may have handled wrong

My life was not under check when I was younger and I wasn’t very used to take responsabily in solving chaoting relationships and work issues
The lies i told and the wasks i wore cause me to feel “detached” from my body (and soul) and that wouldn’t help overcoming my vaginismus secret

I was not keeping track of my daily life, not accountable, quite flacky in relationships…and this prolly cause to feel like… not even a girl.

Plus, i wouldn’t get confident with the anatomy of my vagina

To me, solving all this was complementary to psycotherapy and pelvic exercise

Respect yourself and respect the ones who love you

I wish you the best

[Cathleen Kneidl, RPA-C]

Hi, and thank you for sharing your story.
Are you continuing to have issues with vaginismus? It is never too late to start working on a treatment plan. It is really important to have a provider who knows and understands vaginismus and the different treatment options.
Feel free to reach out to us here at MAZE if you have any questions!

[Sks823]

Hi sad_magpie, I agree with Cathleen – it’s not too late to seek help/treatment!