Hello! Ive been in a relationship with my fiance for 5 years and he just confessed to me that he gave up on our sex life. Just when we actually started having penetrative intercourse and me starting to actually enjoy it. I havent been to gynecologyst but i am going in the next few weeks, the reason why i havent been to one is money we are pretty young as we met when we were 18. The dilators i got a few months ago helped me but now my partner confessed that thr sex is a chore for him and he doesnt want to fix anything about our sex life anymore, he had hope for the first few years but now he is so full of frustration and resentment that he just accepted that our sex life is nonexistent, while we are actually having sex. He started refusing sex with me more and more in the past few years and he just isnt seeing any progress while it actually exists (as i said i got dilators and we are having penetrative sex now and im starting to enjoy it). He just told me that he doesnt have the energy to fix anything anymore but doesnt want to break up. What should i do?
